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Ironman, humanity, and humility
Things didn’t go that well for my wife at Ironman Chattanooga last weekend. While she finished the race last year minus the swim, the hurricane that made landfall and traveled north from the Gulf of Mexico through the eastern United … Continue reading
Posted in death, IRONMAN, life and death, love, mental health, mental illness, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged family, health, life, running, writing
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Maybe the hardest thing I’ve ever done
I was a bit torn when it came time to sell the house I’d owned at 367 Republic Road in Batavia. We moved there from a tiny little 750-square-foot house in Geneva with a leaky basement, a radon problem, and … Continue reading
Posted in aging, anxiety, death, Depression
Tagged Christopher Cudworth, cleaning, cleaning house, death, death cleaning, distance running, family, grief, hardest thing I've ever done, home, home staging, lament, life, moving, sentiment, spouse, staging
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Lessons learned in how to carry on
Following the passing of my late wife in 2013, I remained the principal caregiver for my father, Stewart Cudworth. My mother died in 2005, and despite my father’s condition as a stroke victim, he remained in their home under the … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, coaching, competition, cross country, foregiveness, friendship, running
Tagged anger, art, artist, atrial fibrillation, caregiver, caregiving, dad, discipline, family, father, Father's Day, fatherhood, fathers, mother, parenting, stroke, stroke risk
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Carry on
After several years straight of focusing all efforts on maintaining my late wife’s health through cancer treatments, and stumbling through financially, I had some catching up to do on my own health in 2013. The previous year ended with a … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, death, foregiveness, God, healthy aging, love, running, sex, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged aging, cancer survivorship, caregiver, caregiving, caring for parents, carry on, cry, family, finding love, laugh, love, prayer, The Right Kind of Pride, universe, when you dance I can really love, widow, widower
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Grief and choices
At times I’ve considered whether I’m “missing a chip” when it comes to grieving lost loved ones. Over the years I’ve met people, both men and women, that can’t recover after losing a spouse. Time magazine dealt with the subject … Continue reading
Posted in aging, Christopher Cudworth, competition, death, Depression, friendship, life and death, love
Tagged anticipatory grief, cycling, dealing with grief, death, death and life, denial, family, grief, grief and choices, grief and loss, healing, loss, love, stages of grief, triathlon
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A trip back east in search of a sense of hope
Following a departure from an audio-visual company reeling from its inability to finish a new product for which they never completed the software, I engaged in full-time caregiving for my wife as she sank into another recurrence of the ovarian … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, fear, foregiveness, friendship, mental health, mental illness, PEAK EXPERIENCES, running
Tagged cancer, cancer survivorship, cancer treatment, Cayuga Lake, chemotherapy, family, fear, finger lakes, hope, ithaca new york, ovarian cancer, relationships, sense of hope, survivorship, tarsnakes, therapy, truth, vacation, we run and ride, wineries
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50 Years of Running: Competition’s Son, Part 5
Not long after our family moved to Lancaster, Pennsylvania, my mother made connections with another mom whose son was the same age. That afternoon, she drove me to their house on Golf Road across the street from the Meadia Heights … Continue reading
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Tagged competition, dating, distance running, divorce, family, friendship, girls, growing up, middle school, reunions, Rivalry, we run and ride
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50 Years of Running: Escape from prisons
From the age of twelve through the time I reached twenty-seven years old, I dedicated myself largely to the sport of running. At times, that commitment constituted total immersion. An endurance athlete is both reduced and enlarged through a lifestyle … Continue reading
Posted in race pace, racing peak, running
Tagged anger, anger management, corporate punishment, emotional health, family, relationships, sibling rivalrie, therapy
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50 Years of Running: Performance time
As the last two weeks of cross country season wound down, there was little time for looking backward as all our focus came down to one thing: getting through the Regional Championships to make Nationals. That was our whole goal … Continue reading
Sweet Season: Bringing it all home
Volume one • Volume two • Volume three • Volume Four • Volume five Volume six Volume seven Going into the last meet of the 1978 season, we felt as if we were still capable of doing big things at nationals. Our highest team … Continue reading
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