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Category Archives: foregiveness
Wear and tear and ‘wouldn’t change a thing’
While attending a Luther College reunion, I was walking next to my cross-country coach Kent Finanger, who was bent over and limping due to back issues likely related to his years of playing football and basketball during his college career. … Continue reading
Posted in aging, aging is not for the weak of heart, alcohol, coaching, college, competition, cross country, death, Depression, foregiveness, friendship, healthy aging, healthy senior, injury, life and death, love, mental health, mental illness, running, training
Tagged art, cancer, Christopher Cudworth, coach, coaching, competition, cross country, DC Comics, Decorah Iowa, fun, history, inspiration, Kent Finanger, legacy, Luther College, motivation, NCAA, nicknames, ovarian cancer, pep talks, running, Superman, travel
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Lessons learned in how to carry on
Following the passing of my late wife in 2013, I remained the principal caregiver for my father, Stewart Cudworth. My mother died in 2005, and despite my father’s condition as a stroke victim, he remained in their home under the … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, coaching, competition, cross country, foregiveness, friendship, running
Tagged anger, art, artist, atrial fibrillation, caregiver, caregiving, dad, discipline, family, father, Father's Day, fatherhood, fathers, mother, parenting, stroke, stroke risk
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Life in context
Sue and I rode together consistently in the summer of 2013. I recall it as a warm year, and every time she showed up in her little black cycling shorts and sleeveless kit jersey, I admired her arms and overall … Continue reading
Posted in aging, alcohol, anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, Depression, fear, foregiveness, healthy aging, life and death, love, triathlete
Tagged Christopher Cudworth, dating, death, grief, grieving, life, marriage, ovarian cancer, parenthood, relationships, survivorship
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Carry on
After several years straight of focusing all efforts on maintaining my late wife’s health through cancer treatments, and stumbling through financially, I had some catching up to do on my own health in 2013. The previous year ended with a … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, death, foregiveness, God, healthy aging, love, running, sex, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged aging, cancer survivorship, caregiver, caregiving, caring for parents, carry on, cry, family, finding love, laugh, love, prayer, The Right Kind of Pride, universe, when you dance I can really love, widow, widower
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Dating as a widower
The term “widower” seems so loaded with tradition and history, it deserves a definition right here and now. I looked it up and this is what it says: If anything I was a garden widower before my late wife Linda … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, competition, cycling, death, Depression, foregiveness, life and death, love, track and field, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged books, born romantic, dating after 50, dating app, dating apps, death of a spouse, eHarmony, fitness singles, fitnesssingles, grief, humorous, kept man, love, marriage, midnight in paris, Mr. Big, owen wilson, paris france, relationships, romantic, Sex in the City, spouse, widow, widower, woody allen
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A trip back east in search of a sense of hope
Following a departure from an audio-visual company reeling from its inability to finish a new product for which they never completed the software, I engaged in full-time caregiving for my wife as she sank into another recurrence of the ovarian … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, fear, foregiveness, friendship, mental health, mental illness, PEAK EXPERIENCES, running
Tagged cancer, cancer survivorship, cancer treatment, Cayuga Lake, chemotherapy, family, fear, finger lakes, hope, ithaca new york, ovarian cancer, relationships, sense of hope, survivorship, tarsnakes, therapy, truth, vacation, we run and ride, wineries
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50 Years of Running: Cataclysmic convergence
My competitive instincts had not abated much in my early forties, but one quickly learns as a caregiver that being competitive is not the answer to every problem. In fact, it constitutes an answer to few problems. It doesn’t help … Continue reading
Posted in 10K, aging, aging is not for the weak of heart, Christopher Cudworth, competition, fear, foregiveness, life and death, running, we run and ride
Tagged 360 degree review, adhd, cancer, cancer cells, cancer diagnosis, chemotherapy, Christopher Cudworth, competition, competitive instincts, competitor, daily herald, distance running, gynecological oncology, hospice, life and death, newspaper industry, ovarian cancer, pancreatic cancer, prognosis, sponsorships, stroke, stroke victim, surgery, work performance
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50 Years of Running: Moving meditation
When I landed the job as an editorial writer for the Daily Herald, nothing excited me more than producing weekly columns for publication in the newspaper. I’d first done a column back in 1980 when I was just out of … Continue reading
Posted in aging, Christopher Cudworth, Depression, foregiveness, healthy senior, mental health, running
Tagged Christopher Cudworth, distance running, editorial writer, home schooling, homeschool, ideation, meditation, moving meditation, runner, running, triathlon, we run and ride, writer
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50 Years of Running: On anger, forgiveness, and those voices in your head
Three years into selling ads for what became the Kane County Chronicle after the company was sold to Shaw Newspapers out of Dixon, Illinois, our newspaper announced its plans to build a new corporate headquarters on Randall Road on the … Continue reading
50 Years of Running and the will to win at any cost
When we lose at something it can feel like a small death. But when we accept losing because it is part of life or even embrace losing as a means to move beyond our present circumstance, that is smiling back at death. It’s hard to admit, but that’s a lesson most of us have to learn time and again. It certainly was the case with my distance running career, where a win one week was no guarantee of a win the next. As the saying goes, you’re only as good as your last victory.
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