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Lessons learned in how to carry on
Following the passing of my late wife in 2013, I remained the principal caregiver for my father, Stewart Cudworth. My mother died in 2005, and despite my father’s condition as a stroke victim, he remained in their home under the … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, coaching, competition, cross country, foregiveness, friendship, running
Tagged anger, art, artist, atrial fibrillation, caregiver, caregiving, dad, discipline, family, father, Father's Day, fatherhood, fathers, mother, parenting, stroke, stroke risk
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Carry on
After several years straight of focusing all efforts on maintaining my late wife’s health through cancer treatments, and stumbling through financially, I had some catching up to do on my own health in 2013. The previous year ended with a … Continue reading
Posted in anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, death, foregiveness, God, healthy aging, love, running, sex, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged aging, cancer survivorship, caregiver, caregiving, caring for parents, carry on, cry, family, finding love, laugh, love, prayer, The Right Kind of Pride, universe, when you dance I can really love, widow, widower
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Beyond the pain
Following the passage of my late wife in March of 2013, we conducted a Memorial Service. The people in attendance ranged from all walks of our life. Along with my son and daughter there were other family, longtime friends and … Continue reading
Posted in 10K, aging, Christopher Cudworth, competition, cycling, life and death, love, mental health
Tagged 10K, beyond the pain, cancer, caregiving, faith, God, life, love, memorial, mental health, ovarian cancer, run, runner, running, service, spirit, survivorship, vo2
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Cognitive dissonance and neurodivergence
During the recession that began in 2008 and lasted well into 2010, the United States came to realize that there was a cost to the go-go nature of trying to run an economic engine on full gas and hot for … Continue reading
Posted in adhd, anxiety, Christopher Cudworth, competition, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons
Tagged bush recession, bush tax cuts, cancer, caregiver, caregiving, cognitive dissonance, competition, freelancing, healthcare costs, healthcare insurance, iraq war, neurodivergence, ovarian cancer, pre-existing conditions, recession
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Riding through the pain
During the year 2007 with all the transitions going on in life, I made the decision to expand my fitness retinue by purchasing a genuine road bike. I’d already been riding an ancient 1984-era Trek 400 for several years. That … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, cycling, cycling the midwest, doing pulls in cycling, it never gets easier you just go faster, mental health, werunandride
Tagged bicycle, bike racing, caregiving, criterium, cycling, cyclist, Felt 4C, Felt Bicycles, Felt bikes, mental health, new cyclist, newbie, psychology, PTSD, Specialized, specialized bike, Trek, Trek 400, wheels
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On the flip side, I don’t have to prove myself at the family picnic
Yesterday I wrote a short lament about the way sports consumes so much of our lives if we let it. That’s not a total regret. I’ve gained quite a bit from sports, including the aptitudes of perseverance when called upon, … Continue reading
Posted in Christopher Cudworth, competition, healthy aging, healthy senior, mental health, running, triathlete, triathlon, triathlons, werunandride
Tagged caregiving, carpe diem, competition, distance running, flip side, Hamilton, Napolean Dynamite, proving yourself at the family picnic, reconciliation, regrets, riding, swimming, tarsnakes, uncle rico, woulda coulda shoulda
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I’ve done a lotta drugs in my lifetime, but it’s not what you think
Ever stopped to think about how many drugs you’ve taken in your life? Recently I took a slew of unneeded drugs to the police station to drop them off in the drug container. They give you a plastic bag in … Continue reading
Posted in healthy aging, healthy senior
Tagged cancer drugs, caregiving, doing drugs, heart disease drugs, prescription drugs, stroke drugs, taking drugs
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Keep Calm and the stones will speak to you
Today I’m in the company of someone having a procedure at a hospital. The facility is massive and beautiful like so many others that I’ve visited over the last fifteen years. During all my duties as caregiver to family members … Continue reading
Posted in running
Tagged caregiver, caregiving, forms of energy, hospitals, keep calm, running, stones
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Is it ever okay to be selfish?
Back in 1982, I was transferred by my employer from Chicago out to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania in a consolidation of the marketing department. That situation lasted about eight months before the EVP in charge of the division decided the VP of … Continue reading
On the day your father dies
Three years ago today I visited my father in the hospital for the last time. He’d lived with the effects of a profound stroke for more than 15 years. My mother died in 2005 and that left me in charge … Continue reading
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